Money quote, but do RTWT:
“Nothing unites us now, not religious faith, not cultural memory, not a common understanding of virtue, not the natural goodness of manhood and womanhood, not children, not the elderly, nothing. We do not seek ‘the naked bedrock of character and capacity,’ because they are judgments against us.”
The country of your birth is dead.
Pining for its return is as rational as hoping for a resurrection of the Austro-Hungarian Empire.
Let it go.
Focus on sorting your people and helping them to navigate the next 20 years of disruption.
As a 20th-century person, you have invaluable insights to pass along before you pass away.